Should parents corporal their children?

People say that “ spare the rob” and there are so many who use corporal punishment believing it is the useful method. Should parents corporal their children? I think that shouldn't because some of reasons below.

Firstly, hitting does not only bring a parent closer to their child, but also builds resentment in their child and encourages rebellion later in their teen years. Most behaviors have either natural consequence such as breaking toys, inappetence, disobedience, etc. For me, I was raised in a non-hitting family and I'd venture to say that I think children raised in families where respect, reasoning and understanding are valued may actually love their parents a little more than children who came to think of their parents as "authoritarian" and as who did not believe children deserve the same respect they, themselves, expect other to show them.

Secondly, using corporal punishment could make the child feels bully. Why? Because he felt bitter inside him. Nobody wants corporal punishment. This would encourage the child to rebel when the punishment is too hard for him to bear. It will make him more stubborn and hardheaded. Most parents stop spanking their child once the child is big enough to fight back, what does that say about spanking? It is tool only used to dominate over someone who is weaker and smaller to make them do something what you want them to do. What does that teach about cooperation? We need to stop the madness of corporal punishment and start use good parenting skills rather than hitting our children to dominate over them when they small. Generally, what the child do or accomplished reflects what kind of parents he has

In fact, the world is full of people who have grown up after being hit as children and who will say, “ I was hit, and I’m ok.” Well, we are not saying people will die from being hit or that everyone who was ever hit by parents will be a criminal. We am saying, however, that the relationship children have with non-hitting parents is better one; that not hitting children is the only real way to practice what we preach, the children who are not hit often far better behaved than the children who are, and that even people who think they are “ok” after being hit are not as “ok” as they would have been had they not been hit.

It is a fact that dealing with kids need a lot of patience. But there are some other ways to make them behave well other than spanking or hitting. In this generation, we can not keep the children in our home if we always hit them every time they made mistakes. So, rob does not teach a child to become a good person.

Watching TV is harmful habit.

Television or other means of communications are great invention of human. With a small compact device, we can hear, see a lot of things which are being in the remotest parts of continents in all over the world. From the first primitive dark-white running on battery television, the modern one with applied digital technology, lively color as real image, is indispensable entertainment equipment of each family. To attract audience, radio stations broadcast interesting programs for all ages. However, people say : "watching TV is harmful habit" because of some of reasons below:

First, watching TV wastes much time and money. For example, some children share most of time to watch TV instead of doing homework and preparing for new lesson of continuous day or helping to do housework, baby-sit for their parents. Even,some of children, after school, leave either having bath or having dinner to watch TV. Moreover, we pay a sum for electricity monthly.

Second, there is a watching TV addict in our family, he will bring about bad affects to people around such as we are followed like that .When we are giving our whole mind to studying or thinking something, another person is turning TV on, we can not concentrate. Some parents always remind the studying of their children but they themselves are watching TV nearby, how can their children study when their ears and their eyes are distracted by the stereo, the moving pictures. They may think that their parents are relaxing while they do not.

Third, watching TV damages the relationship between members of family such as instead of going shopping, going swimming together, one of them just stays at home and watches TV. Or when we are watching TV each other, one person likes this film but the other likes animal world program; so, the agreement may be broken up. Or, in the family meal, instead of talking together, everyone gazes on the screen with many colored pictures.

Nevertheless, there are some reasons to think that they essentially watch TV to keep track of current events. However, the real ratio is few because most of viewers are leisured housewives or children; so, their favorite programs are romantic serials , cartoon,etc. They immediately turn off or slip to other channel if that is advertising film, newsreel, and so on.
We must admit that the chosen films to broadcast are excellence. Yet, they are almost sentimental, gallant characters as Korean love stories which impact on young thinking of puberty. When they enter upon real life, they are isolated or make mistakes.

In short, for me, everything has a good side and a bad side to its character. If we abuse it, it may harm ourselves and surrounding people.